First
off, sorry for such a long break since my last posting and I am very happy to
report IÕm now able and anxious to get back to my writings and, of course, work
again on finishing my book.
This
past Saturday I spent the entire day moving all my belongings carload by
carload into my new studio apartment on the lake. My new job at the same
address has been super-eventful too.
Just
earlier this evening I was handling emergency phone calls from Evanston
Hospital regarding one of our residents who is in his late 70s. Last night we
had a 68-year-old deaf resident return to us after almost two solid weeks at
Swedish Covenant.
So
far, my unpacking has only consisted of underwear, bedding, toiletries and
books. I was actually reunited with a bunch of books that have sat idle on my
shelves since the last time I moved in 2008. I couldnÕt help but open some of
them for quick reminder peeks at why I still value them enough to keep them in
my extremely space-limited library.
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What
struck me as funny is when I popped open the one-time bestseller book from 1973
called ÒHow to Get Control of Your Time and Your Life,Ó written by renowned
time-management consultant Alan Lakein, and saw how he listed as one of ÒSeven
Common MistakesÓ the habit of Òskimming through material previously relegated
to a bottom drawer as not really worth reading.Ó
He
further nailed me with, ÒSpending two hours on The Wall Street Journal, or trying to make a dent in your pile of
unread copies of the Sunday New York
Times.Ó
LakeinÕs
No. 1 mistake was Òindulging yourself.Ó He explained, ÒDoing something you
really enjoy. Buying a new hat or tie or book. Taking the rest of the day off
to play golf. Getting a suntan. Going to the movies. Sleeping. Taking a bath or
shower and leisurely grooming yourself.Ó
His
second item was ÒSocializing. Visiting with others. Lingering on the telephone.
Renewing an acquaintance with an old friend. Making small talk every chance you
get.Ó
*****
In this
same genre of career advice, I couldnÕt help but open up my old paperback from
Dale Carnegie (circa 1970) called ÒHow to Enjoy Your Life and Your Job,Ó in
which he wrote, ÒThe world is full of people who are grabbing and self-seeking.
So the rare individual who unselfishly tries to serve others has an enormous
advantage. He has little competition.Ó
Carnegie
quoted Owen D. Young, a noted lawyer and one of AmericaÕs great business
leaders, as once saying: ÒPeople who can put themselves in the place of other
people, who can understand the workings of their minds, need never worry about
what the future has in store for them.Ó
Carnegie
observed, ÒLooking at the other personÕs point of view and arousing an eager
want for something is not to be construed as manipulating that person to do
something that is only for your benefit and his or her detriment. Each party
should gain from the negotiation.Ó
*****
Inside
my coffee-table sized hardback from 1957 called the ÒJunior
Jewish Encyclopedia,Ó was a dissertation-style insert IÕd forgotten about in
which the author wrote, ÒRashi Shlomo Itzhaki, better known by his initials,
Rashi, holds a unique place in the history of Jewish culture. Neither a
lawgiver nor a prophet, neither ruler nor philosopher, he nevertheless
exercised a powerful influence upon the thinking and feeling, the expression
and mode of living of millions of Jews for some nine hundred years. Rashi
stands as a rare example of the power of a teacher to impress himself upon a
whole people.
ÒIn
RashiÕs writings, as well as in his practices, one finds sublime expression of
the value of study and teaching. There is hardly an utterance on this subject,
recorded by generations of scholars and pietists who preceded him, which is not
quoted directly or indirectly by him.
ÒEducation,
or its Hebrew equivalent, Torah, was to Rashi, as to his predecessors, more
than a means of imparting knowledge, the training in skills, or even the
building of character.
ÒEducation
to the Jew has been an integral part of religion itself, constituting one of
the three foundations upon which Judaism rests: God, Israel, and Torah. It is
this conception of Torah as an essential element of Jewish religious faith and
observance that accounted, more than anything else, for the widespread interest
in and practice of education among Jews, even in an age of universal
illiteracy.Ó
*****
In another
large reference book of mine called ÒThe Little, Brown Book of Anecdotes,Ó I decided
to flip to Ben Franklin since Jordan had just mentioned an anecdote related to
the colonial statesman this past Sunday.
One
particularly succinct anecdote read: ÒWhen Franklin was dining out in Paris,
one of the other diners posed the question: ÔWhat condition of man most
deserves pity?Õ Each guest proposed an example of such a pitiable condition.
When FranklinÕs turn came, he offered: ÔA lonesome man on a rainy day who does
not know how to read.Õ Ó