The great thing about moving as much as I do is your load
of belongings, by necessity, gets lighter and lighter. I am actually now down
to about the same volume of ÒstuffÓ I had upon leaving home at 18 for my
freshman year of college (save for my 350-plus vinyl-record collection!).
At the elderly house where I currently work I have just a
small bedroom to myself (plus the upper half of one basement storage closet), making
it tough to choose what sentimental old art work to hang on limited wall space.
*****
What a lot of people donÕt know is, along with my double
degree from Ohio State in journalism and political science, I have a minor in
art history and artÕs always been important to me (my mom is a painter and
sculptor, etc., who got her degree in fine arts in the Õ50s from the University
of Akron).
While others go for colors, design, structure, etc., my
thing has always been for inspirational people. My long-loved biggest framed
work is a print from the Detroit Institute of Arts of Vincent van GoghÕs self-portrait
where he has on a straw hat and gives this incredibly soulful, intense stare—one
that is directed straight at me whenever I sit in bed and watch TV!
Under a much smaller glass frame above my dresser is a
collage of black-and-white portrait photos from newspaper clippings that I put
together while still in NYC and writing from home inside my small HellÕs
Kitchen studio.
In Manhattan, it used to hang above my computer desk next
to an old kitchen plaque made in Ecuador I saved from when my dad died that
reads, ÒOnly one life, Twill soon be past, Only whatÕs done for Christ will
last. ÔTo me to live is Christ.Õ Ó
*****
My favorite photo from the collage is of my great aunt
Audrey when she was 90 years old and sitting in her rocking chair on the front
porch of the Kanawha River cottage house she shared with her sister Nel in the
small West Virginia mountain town of Sutton, pop. 1,100 (EditorÕs Note: To see a color snapshot I took of
Nel for this site, click on ÒBack IssuesÓ going back to May 16, 2003).
Audrey, a long-time beauty salon owner in Philadelphia who
was married to a prominent doctor, was a voluminous poet in her retirement
years and her work was frequently published in the local paper, The Braxton Democrat-Central.
Accompanying this particular photo from 1991—in
which sheÕs wearing a summery polka-dot skirt and a wide white French beret
with a star pin anchoring it to her thick and wavy white hair—is her poem
ÒThe Vagabond Lover,Ó said to be dedicated Òin memory of P.M., a war veteran of
Dublin, Ireland.Ó
The love poem reads, in part, ÒWhen my street is draped in
snow, I know where to go to find the lover, The Vagabond Lover, a man of the
road. A man of the highway life. Old Rocky Bywatt, just a man of the road.
ÒHe will keep you warm come a blizzard or storm. He will
kiss away the tears and smooch away the years—thatÕs the lover, the man
of the highway.
ÒYou can love all your doctors, merchants or chiefs, but I
will take the man of the road. His words might be compared to the prettiest
bird. His voice echoes sweetest sounds ever heard. His kisses divine were
sweeter than wine. His warm, soft and tender smile would thaw the frost of age
and add new extinguishable fuel to a cold womanÕs heart . . . Ó
*****
At the bottom of this morningÕs obituary page in the Chicago Sun-TimesÕ was a face and name I
immediately recognized. He is the same elderly black man from Kenya who I have
in my framed collage next to Audrey and her Vagabond poem.
In the photo I clipped from the New York Times in 2004, Joseph Stephen Kimani Nganga Maruge is
sitting on a dirt floor next to his hammock reading from the Bible. The cutline
simply displays his quote, ÒLet them who want to make fun of me do it. I will
continue to learn.Ó
*****
I was so inspired by MarugeÕs story that I wrote about him
for my website. IÕve copied and pasted the article below but first, hereÕs the Associated Press obituary:
ÒA Kenyan man who was believed to be the world's oldest
pupil has died at the age of 89, five years after he entered primary school so
that he could learn to read the Bible, his family said Monday.
ÒJoseph Stephen Kimani Nganga Maruge died Friday at the
Kariobangi Cheshire Home for the aged in the Kenyan capital, Nairobi. He died
of stomach cancer, said his granddaughter, Anne Maruge.
ÒMaruge accomplished his biggest goal — being able to read
the Bible — but he remained shy of completing primary school.
"In the morning he used to wake up early to read the Bible
before going to school," Anne Maruge, 18, told The Associated Press.
"Even when he fell ill and you found him basking in the sun, often he
would be reading the Bible."
ÒMaruge enrolled in primary school in the western Kenya town of
Eldoret in January 2004 after the government decided to make primary school
free. He wore a school boy's uniform — shorts, sweater and long socks —
and walked to class hunched over with the aid of a cane and holding a book bag.
ÒThe Guinness Book of World Records listed Maruge as the world's
oldest primary school pupil.
ÒSurvived by four children, 19 grandchildren and one
great-grandchild, Maruge overcame great odds to attend school. All his
belongings were stolen from his home in the Rift Valley during Kenya's bloody
postelection violence in early 2008, forcing him to flee and live in a displacement
camp with thousands of others who lost their homes in the bloodshed.
ÒHe continued his studies despite the living conditions, and the
Red Cross moved him into the old-age home in May 2008, Anne Maruge said. He
stopped attending classes in January because of his illness.
" ÔWhen he became ill, he started to cry because he was not
going to go to school,Õ Anne Maruge said.
Maruge went to New York in 2005 to promote a global campaign to
get more children into schools.
" ÔLiberty means going to school and learning,Õ he said in
an interview at that time. ÔYou are never too old to learn.Õ
*****
HereÕs my write-up from 2004:
Tacked up on my bulletin board next to my desk is a
black-and-white photograph clipped from the New
York Times of an 84-year-old Kenyan man crouched down inside his mud hut
residence, reading from his Bible using his index finger as a cursor.
The lanky, gray-bearded man, Kimani Nganga Maruge, has on
a white dress shirt and blue suitcoat with matching trousers he's purposefully
cut off above the knee to resemble the school uniforms worn by schoolchildren
across his native country.
A cutline quote from him reads, "Let them who want to
make fun of me do it. I will continue to learn."
The A-section feature profile on Maruge, saved in my files
from April 2004, tells of a cane-carrying widower and great-grandfather who
never spent a day in school as a youth, instead being directed by his father to
mind the family's herd of livestock.
When the government of Kenya announced two years ago that
it would offer free primary school education through grade 8, though, Maruge,
to the shock of school officials, stood in line among a large group of
six-year-olds at a neighborhood campus for enrollment in the first grade.
"There were those in his village who thought Mr.
Maruge had gone mad when he began going off to school every morning dressed
like a youngster," writes Marc Lacey in the Times piece. "But he had his defenders as well. 'He's not a
madman,' said Chacha Abdala Juma, 74, a village elder and friend who himself
finished second grade. 'I know him. He's not senile.' "
According to the article, Maruge's desire to learn to read
was "to help him determine whether the preacher at his church is actually
following the Bible." He wanted basic math skills to "allow him to
better keep track of his money."
"At Kapkenduiywa Primary, Mr. Maruge is now a
fixture," the article confirms. "He is frequently the first student
to arrive in the morning, sometimes an hour early. During the school day, he
plays the role of both student and teacher. He feels free to give advice to his
classmates, reminding them frequently to study hard and listen to their
parents. And he also regales the teachers, most of whom are half his age, with
stories about Kenya's earlier days. 'We learn a lot from him,' said Mr.
Chemworem, his teacher. 'He's like a history book.' "
At the end of each school day, Maruge walks back to the
home he shares with his sister to tend to his small herd of sheep and his goats
and chickens. "Later, he pulls out his books to study a bit before
dinner," says the article. "He is the only student at the school who
asks his teacher for homework."
*****
God makes it clear in His Word that He will provide
understanding to anyone who approaches His Book with a sincerely desirous and
thirsty heart. He rewards those who diligently seek Him with pearls of ÒhiddenÓ
Bible truths.
Being reminded of Maruge today I could not help but think
back to a story I wrote in 2003 about another similarly inspirational figure for
me—Louie from Loudonville, Ohio (a 3,000-plus population village in
northeastern Ohio where I went to junior high and high school).
Here is the piece—and I only wish I had a photo of
him too!:
I'm currently working on a piece about the growth of paganism
in our culture, but thought I'd fill the void with a Bible-related account from
my sister, Rita.
In high school, starting at age 15, Rita worked an
after-school job as a nurse's helper for a state-subsidized nursing home
devoted to severely disabled people.
Her favorite resident soon became a guy in his 50s named
Louie, who was both disabled and classified as "mentally retarded."
She tells their story as "buddies" like this: "Louie
was born with severe birth defects, including a clubfoot, and very bad asthma.
His mother shoved him a state institution and he never got schooling. She never
visited him and practically disowned him. Pretty much she just treated him like
crap.
"Louie had a hard time going to the bathroom, not
only because of his foot but because he had chronic asthma. He would
accidentally pee himself.
"He lost his teeth when he
was very young due to malnutrition from his mother.
"I remembered from my first days at the nursing home
he was always making potholders. Now don't ask me how he was taught this but he
was real good at it and used to sell them to everybody. He'd say, 'You want to
buy a potholder off me today—I got one for a $1.'
"He'd ask people, 'You know
what I'm saving the money for? I'm saving for teeth.'
"When he first told me this, I said, 'Good for you,
Louie, that's really wonderful! You're really trying to do something nice for
yourself!' He said, 'Well, I feel like I need to do something because I can't
stand chomping on my gums.' I said, 'You're right, that would feel pretty
uncomfortable chewing.'
"After Louie started learning different things about
me, I used to tease him and call him my boyfriend. The point is he got to
talking to me about everything and he said one day,
'You know, Rita, I don't understand this. I've never had
schooling in my life. I don't necessarily know how to write except for my name,
but can you figure this out—I can read the Bible all the way through and
tell you what it says through and through. I've memorized everything I've
read.'
"I said, 'Wow, Louie, that's a gift from God!' Anyway,
time went by and you really weren't allowed to talk about religion when you
worked in a nursing home.
"One day I'll always remember was when I was invited
to go with the whole nursing home, staff and patients, to Geauga Lake (an
amusement park in northeastern Ohio). The other chaperones wanted to split off
with the easier patients—the ones that wouldn't pee their pants and all
that other stuff—but I took Louie and all the other mentally retarded
one. I had about five or six to chaperone and I took off with them to show them
a good time.
"I remember saying, 'Louie, pick out a ride. Pick out
anything. It's your day.'
We found the first ride that had the right kind of steps
for his foot and I said, 'Louie, we need to go one step at a time up those
steps, so you hold onto me and I'll hold onto you and we'll get up there.'
"I said to all the men, 'We're going to do this all
together guys because we're going to have a good time together.' And they said,
'Yeah!'
"So here's Louie trying to go up the steps with
asthma and all, and he's getting up there and getting up there and getting up
there--he's getting to the platform. Finally he got on this ride and then we
all got on.
"I never saw anybody enjoy their day more. We did
anything they wanted to do within reason. We had a ball. When we wanted to go
to the bathroom, no problem. I said, 'Louie, I'll have to walk you to the door
and you'll have to go by yourself. Go slow, and take your time because we're
going to have a good time and we're not going to worry about you falling. We're
not going to worry about anything.'
"And he said, 'Okay, Rita,' catching his breath and
all because he had chronic asthma.
"As the day went on, we'd pass other people from the
nursing home and the chaperones would say to me, 'Oh, I'm so tired. It's so hot
out here.'
"They were complaining and here I was laughing
inside, singing in my heart, thinking to myself, 'We're having a great time. I
don't know about you, but we're having a super time!'
"Of course, I had the ones nobody else wanted, but I
loved them. It was so nice spending time one-on-one with the people who really
needed love.
"So get this, when we got back on the bus to go back
to the nursing home, Louie said, 'I had the greatest time,' in his huffy
voice--he was catching his breath, trying to smile and laugh at the same time.
ÒThen he said, 'I love you,' and I said, 'I love you too,
Louie.' "And then all of a sudden I got a hug from all the men I took care
of and I said to them, 'I love all of you the same and don't you ever forget
it.'
"Then, when the other nursing home employees were
huffing and puffing, complaining about the hard day they had, putting everybody
into the toilet and everything, the activity director stood up in the bus and
said, 'I have an announcement to make. I would like to say 'thank you' to
somebody who did a wonderful job taking care of her group. And I would like to
present this person a present from them.'
"And she named my name! It was a little heart trinket
box and you know how I liked hearts when I was younger. I still keep it as my
keepsake box.
"Time went by and, as you remember, I was in the
hospital from the car accident we were in. Well, all 27 people in the nursing
home took time to write me a card in the hospital.
"And then here's Louie, somebody's whose been
crippled up since birth, and he's made me a heart from construction paper as a
special homemade card. He told me later he made it to look like a light bulb
with hearts at the bottom but without it coming to a point at the top. It
didn't come to a point at the top.
"After that, guess what happened? Louie had almost
earned all the money he needed for his teeth but guess what happened? He died.
"Since he was pretty much deserted by his mom and dad
and everyone in his family, they asked me to give a eulogy at the funeral. I
was so upset from his death, though; I just couldn't find the right words. I
kept praying about it and I feel bad about it to this day. I still say
sometimes to God, 'Say Hi to Louie for me.'
"Louie had a spirit of gold. Even though he was
always the worst of clients at the nursing home because he couldn't do much, we
hit it off like buddies from the beginning. I remember one time I said, 'Louie,
how would you like to have a good back rub tonight to help you sleep.' He said,
'I haven't had one of those in years and I don't even remember having one. I
don't mind if you do.'
I said, 'Good, because I'm going to give you a good back
rub and give you some lotion and then you're going to sleep good.'
*****
Here are some questions I asked my sister about Louie:
Lisa: "What exactly did he
ever say about the Bible?"
Rita: "He could tell you anything that happened in
the Bible and interpret it. I don't remember--it's been so long ago--but he
would read it daily. Every day like clockwork. He would read in the morning, I
think, but I worked in the afternoon, and I know he read before he went to
bed."
Lisa: "Did he tell anybody
about what he learned?"
Rita: "Oh, yeah, he used to quote story after
story."
Lisa: "Did people
listen?"
Rita: "Well, yeah, but you know when people hear
religion they want to turn the other way. And then people would sometimes say
things like, 'You're out of your mind. You don't know anything. You're different.'
"Me, I knew just to believe what I saw in him as a
person. He was a man bound-and-determined man to get some teeth and he was
bound-and-determined to get them by making potholders. He used to make towels,
too, all kinds of stuff. Just trying to get along.
"The things I learned off those people were
incredible. There was love there. There was magnetism there. There was
spontaneous love. There was conviction. There were highlights in my day all the
time. When I thought the whole world was ending, they always picked up my
spirits.
"They said, 'It looks like you need a hug today.' I
said, 'I sure can use one—give me a big one! Give me a big, bigger hug,'
and they'd squeeze me and I'd say, 'Sing for me,' and they'd sing for me. They
always did something to make me feel good because we were never allowed to
receive gifts.
"But my gifts were
internal. I saw God working in me to work FOR them."
Lisa: "You also saw God working in THEM for
YOU."
Rita: "RIGHT! I mean I was taught morals, wisdom,
spiritual life, giving life, Corinthian love. I was taught discipleship. I was
taught religion. I was taught everything I needed to know to grow. They are the
ones I credit. It was addicting to me because God gave me the strength to go to
school full-time and, after school was up, go to work full-time. That was
illegal of course, but I didn't know any better. I didn't know any better that
I wasn't allowed to work until I was 16. You're not allowed to work past so
many hours when you're 15.
"But it must have been God saying, 'You know, Rita, I
think you deserve to be in that place right now. I'm going to choose that one.'
Eventually it just became natural. Everything and anything happened for me. I
felt God had responsibility for it—you know what I mean?
"I can't see myself ever forgetting those memories. I
felt so strong it was God's way because I remember very well on August 10,
1978, when I called several different places, asking, 'Are you accepting
applications?' and I'd get, 'No.' 'Do you need someone to pump gas?' 'No.' 'Do
you need someone to be a waitress or clean up floors?' 'No.' Then I said, 'Oh,
I'll just pick one more out of the phone book.'
"The last call I made was to 994-4250 and I asked,
'Are you accepting any applications?' The guy said, 'Well, what's your name,'
and I told him. I said, 'Rita Leland.' He said, 'How old are you?' and I said,
'15'. He asked, 'When's your birthday?' and I told him. He said, 'C'mon down
and I'll talk to the manager in the mean time' and later on they said, 'We'll
talk.' "