In the news yesterday was a
warning about ÒCrackBerrys,Ó or people addicted to their BlackBerry devices.
ÒEmployers rightfully provide
programs to help workers with chemical or substance addictions,Ó a researcher
with Rutgers University School of Business was quoted saying in an article
posted to ScienceDaily.com. ÒAddiction to technology can be equally damaging to
the mental health of the worker.Ó
I can tell you that here in
Manhattan there is an apparent vast addiction to cell phones. One of the places
I really notice it is in Starbucks. Invariably, someone will sit down next to
me after theyÕve just ordered a coffee and immediately reach into their purse
or briefcase for their phone. Then the calling and/or checking of messages
begins. At no point do they seem conscious at all of anything outside of their
own conversation.
As an editor for Vogue magazine is quoted saying in yesterdayÕs New York
Post, ÒPersonally, I find this new
BlackBerry culture annoying to the point of exasperation.Ó
HereÕs a great passage on addiction
from an old sermon by my pastor, Richard Jordan of Shorewood Bible Church,
Rolling Meadows, Ill.:
ÒAnything you continually
depend on for purpose and meaning in life is going to control you. If you
depend on the Spirit of God for purpose and meaning in life. . . Paul says,
ÔAnd be not drunk with wine, wherein is excess; but be filled with the Spirit.Õ
To be filled is to be controlled by something. . . How can a little drug, a
little pill get control? It doesnÕt have any will. It doesnÕt say, ÔI want to
possess you; IÕve got to have you!Õ It just sits on the table. It doesnÕt have
any emotions. It doesnÕt love you. And yet it can take absolute control over
your life. You can get so addicted to it that you canÕt live without it. Booze
can do that. Pride can do that. Envy can do it.
ÒYou take that pill and you
want to feel a certain way. You begin to depend on that pill to make you feel
that way. And you begin to depend on that pill to give you meaning and purpose
in life, and pretty soon that pill becomes your source of that, and it gets
control.
ÒSo if youÕll depend on who
God says you are (in Romans through Philemon), you know whatÕs going to control
your life? GodÕs going to control it. To be filled with the Spirit requires your positive volition. It
takes your faith choice to rely upon the sufficiency that God has given you in
Christ and nothing else.Ó
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Yesterday, I passed a
teen-aged girl wearing a pink t-shirt that had written on it in white letters,
ÒPay Me Attention.Ó
The other day, in walking
past a Times Square restaurant I noticed an 8-10 year-old girl sitting at a
window booth who had a butterfly tattoo on her shoulder. I couldnÕt tell
whether it was permanent or not, but it wouldnÕt have surprised me a bit if it
was.
HereÕs another passage on
addiction in which my pastor talks about peopleÕs desire for tattoos.
ÒWith young people itÕs sort
of a status symbol, but it also can come from the issue of exhibitionism.
SomebodyÕs saying, ÔPlease look at me, here I am, IÕm trying to get your
attention.Õ More often than not, itÕs somebody who feels bad about themselves;
feels unworthy. They castigate themselves. And they say, ÔSee, IÕm not worth
looking at anyway; I need to look like a freak and IÕll look like a freak so
you think IÕm a freak because thatÕs really what I think of myself.Õ
ÒExhibitionism is universally
an expression of the struggle against depression. Sexual promiscuity is a
reflection against the battle against depression. So is profanity, obscene
speech.
ÒAnother one is clinging,
hanging on. ÒOne of the fascinating things about how deceptive our heart can be
is in excessive generosity—where someone is making an attempt to make themselves
indispensable by their giving, and attaching themselves to the obligations of,
ÔLook at all IÕve done for you.Õ
ÒIncessant conversation is
another clinging characteristic. So is attacking. Either aggression against
someone whoÕs rejected you, or more frequently, the attack on yourself. And the
way the attacking part of it works is, first you attack others, but soon enough
you begin to turn that attack on yourself, and those kinds of things make up what
clinically are described as characteristics of depression.
ÒWhen thereÕs the tendency in
depression to withdraw from others thatÕs the result of a loss of affection; ambivalence.
The personÕs unwilling to risk loving, or not loving something and being caught
between it. ThereÕs withdrawal and self-occupation.Ó